Your Dominant Best Friend - Taking Charge [Part 1/5] [Best Friend to Dominant Lover] [Slow Burn]

Transcript

Hey hey hey come here come here give me a hug give me a hug come on come on I'm so sorry he didn't deserve you he didn't deserve you at all no it's okay it's okay seriously when I get a call from you like that it's time for me to drop everything and get over here of course of course that's what best friends are for you need me I'm here for you come on let's sit down come on so tell me what happened mm-hmm did he give a reason he said he wants to see other people is he for real oh my god Dane that guy was such a fucking prick you were always too good for him do you think he's got someone else in mind that he wanted to date a fucking arsehole seriously I never liked that guy of course I was nice to him I had to be nice to him you were dating him I still thought he was an arsehole even his name is stupid Dane fucking idiot just like every guy you date you really know how to pick them yeah well maybe you should listen to my dating advice more often you could use a dating coach or maybe just a life coach to handle everything at this point yeah I should step in I think I see exactly what's going on here yeah well you always want to date these dominant guys who tell you what to do I know you've got a type that's obvious but they don't have your best interests at heart there's a difference between being dominant and being an arsehole you know like if you have to date guys like that please please look for the ones that actually care about you at least for my sake so I don't have to keep coming around here so that I can be your shoulder to cry on it's the third time this year no I'm happy to do it I just wish that I didn't have to I want to see you be taken better care of that's all yeah well I've always felt protective of you I guess it comes with being a little older yeah yeah well after I rescued you from those bullies back in high school you wouldn't leave me alone I didn't have much choice other than to be your friend even if the other kids teased me about it yeah it's true well maybe I never told you I mean I did get teased for having a best friend who was two years below me like it wasn't serious teasing or anything and I didn't really care the fun I had hanging out with you was worth it yeah well I picked a good one to rescue and I felt responsible for you ever since I guess that's why it's so hard for me to see you date arseholes of course it was fun hanging out with you back then maybe I should have felt embarrassed hanging out with someone two years younger than me but every time it was lunch break or recess or whatever as soon as that Bell rang the only thing I could ever think of was coming to find you as quickly as possible well I had to make sure you were okay didn't I yeah well after I graduated and moved on I was worried about you at school without me no one to look out for you that's why I picked you up after school every day for two years after I left yeah I wanted to see you of course but I did also really just want to make sure that you're okay hey silly I'm telling you this stuff now because I'm trying to cheer you up get it come here let me get my arms around you hmm it's always funny when you curl up in my arms like that yeah I like having my arms around you yeah well you're right I am big it's not that hard come on come on it's okay I know you liked him but seriously you can do much better than Dane you need someone who will take care of you look after you properly look you've obviously got some need to be with guys who are controlling assholes so we need to get on top of this all right because it's not a good situation maybe it's my fault I've always looked after you maybe a little too much I'm always doing things for you and trying to guide you in the right direction maybe I do it too much but at this point I'm wondering if maybe it's also not enough look maybe I shouldn't blame myself for this but I kind of do because I feel responsible for you and the way I figure it there's two choices either I let go completely and you start figuring out how to do things for yourself which means that we don't spend as much time together so that's obviously out the window we're not going to do that or we go the other way and you let me just take over for a while yeah take over well I mean God look at this place not only are you making terrible relationship decisions but your place is a mess you need to get a grip I've always been the one who looks out for you anyway so I guess we'd just be taking it up a notch to the next level I'm tired of seeing you get hurt and make bad choices I guess I tried to guide you but maybe I made the mistake of allowing you too much room to make mistakes for yourself so we'll have to make sure that you're not allowed to make mistakes anymore hey come on look at me I think this is for your own good if you just let me take over if you can't make choices for yourself then you can't make mistakes and if you're so desperate for dominant men to be part of your life then I have to make sure that you get a healthier model of what that should look like I'm sick and tired of missing out on time that I could be spending with you just so you can hang out with boyfriends who don't treat you with respect so you're gonna take a little break from dating for a while while we focus on getting this new arrangement figured out between you and I because I'm not gonna let people keep hurting my friend I love you too much I care about you too much and if that means that I have to step in and take over then I think that's what we have to do hey hey hey come on stop looking sad and look at me look here this is a way that we can take something unhappy and turn it into something good I protected you in high school and now I'm coming back to protect you again because you're my best friend and I love you and you're breathtakingly beautiful and perfect and sweet and I love spending time with you so this will mean that I get to do more of that okay if you're feeling upset because you got dumped then that means that you and I grow closer together and that's how we fix it okay I'm gonna fill that hole for you now get up and start cleaning this house yes I'm serious it's time for me to get your life in order starting with cleaning up this dump we'll do it together come on I'll help let's get to it come on.