Thank you so much u/craving_ownership from reddit for this script that shows just how deep and intimate the relationship between Dom and Sub can be. it resonated so much with me while i recorded. https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildaudio/comments/1emiluq/m4f_the_beginnings_of_ownership_script_offer_mdom/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Writer's Summary: If I only ever told you to do things that you already wanted to do, would I really have control over you? What would my ownership of you be worth? You say you want me to own all of you, body and soul. You say you want to make me happy but baby, here's the key. I want your desire for my happiness to be a NEED for you. That desire for my happiness should be the driving force in your life.
Hey sweetie. Come here and kneel in front of me. Yep, right there on this pillow.
Hey, just because I care about your comfort does not mean I'm not a dom. I can be fully in charge and still care about those things. In fact, I wouldn't be much of a dom if I didn't care about your comfort now, would I? I know you've had bad experiences in the past.
Guys who pretended to be dominant just so that they can get whatever they wanted out of you. Do I treat you like that? No, I do not.
I want you to run through the needs and wants hierarchy for me, baby. What's at the top? That's right.
Your needs are first. I know you don't like admitting you have needs, which is why I have to put them first. Even before my own.
Of course I want to use you for my own pleasure. Have you been paying attention in the last few months? But that doesn't mean I'm not paying close attention to what you need and making sure I provide it.
And part of that is a pillow for your knees when you're at my feet. Okay, next on the hierarchy is, yes, my needs. You've learned that my needs are quite simple, aren't they, sweetie? I need your obedience.
I need you to try your best for me. And I need you to always be honest with me. And then we come to, I know this was one of your favorites.
Yes, that is wants. I saw your eyes light up when you said those words. Daddy has lots of wants, doesn't he? I want your mouth, your sweet pussy, your tight ass.
And sometimes I want something simple like a glass of water when you're relaxing on your phone. And sometimes you give me a sigh or an eye roll before you obey. How does that fit into the hierarchy? Baby, I'm not mad.
We are having a discussion, that's all. You don't need to apologize. No, no, stop.
Look at me, please. That's it. Now listen.
I am setting expectations for our relationship going forward. I want us on the same page on what ownership looks like. Yes, I said ownership.
No, no, be quiet. I'll let you know when you can talk again. Right now I want you to listen.
I've owned your pussy and your mouth and your ass since basically the beginning. But if I take more ownership of you, then things will change. They will be deeper, more intense.
We both need to understand our roles within that. And I'm starting here with a recap of the needs and wants hierarchy. So let's go back.
Sometimes my wants are simple, but they aren't about sex. Sometimes they contradict what you want. Sometimes they'll be so inconvenient to you.
Next one on the hierarchy, my whims, could be even more removed from what you want. I could have a whim to, I don't know, make you ask for permission to speak for a day. Wear the clothes that I pick out.
Stop allowing you to make eye contact with me for a period of time. And how do those things make you feel, sweetie? Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm. And those are valid feelings, baby. Your feelings are always valid.
I want you to remember that. What is not okay is thinking that an owned toy gets to express those feelings however she wants. So when I ask you to get me a glass of water.
.. Okay. Yes, I am telling you to do it.
But it feels better if I phrase it as a question. And if I see that you're relaxing on your phone and I tell you to get me a glass of water anyway, I don't want to see you roll your eyes or sigh. I want you to understand that I know exactly what I'm doing and lean into your obedience.
What do I mean by that? Let's just do the last item on the list and then I'll explain. What is at the bottom of the hierarchy? Mm-hmm.
That's right. Your wants. Give me an example of a want of yours, sweetie.
Oh, you're so predictable. Yes. Orgasms are definitely on your want list.
And I don't let you have them very often, do I? No. No, I don't.
That's hard for you, isn't it, baby? I'm fucking you with my thick cock. You are drenching us both in your wetness.
And you want so badly to explode with pleasure. And yet you obey me when I tell you no. Because it makes me happy when you obey me.
Even when it's hard. Maybe even especially when it's hard. If I only ever told you to do things that you already wanted to do, would I really have control over you?
What would my ownership be worth? You say you want me to own all of you, body and soul. You say you want to make me happy.
But, baby, here's the key. I want your desire for my happiness to be a need for you. That desire for my happiness should be the driving force in your life.
And you shouldn't need to think about whether you want to obey me or not. Do you think those kinds of thoughts when I deny you your orgasms? Or do you simply obey me when I tell you no? You moan and whimper and squirm.
But it doesn't even cross your mind that disobedience is an option, does it? It's because it isn't. If I don't want you to come, you don't get to come.
That's final. Do you think those thoughts when I tangle my hand in your hair and pull your mouth to my cock so that you can worship me? No.
Your need to please and obey and worship me overrides any other thought you might have. I love it so much when I can tell that you aren't thinking of anything other than my pleasure. When you lose yourself in your worship of me, then I know I could ask anything.
Anything of you. And you would obey without question. When we're lying together in bed, covered in sweat and letting our heartbeats slow down, I can see the total contentment on your face and in your eyes, regardless of whether I let you come or not.
I know you find deep contentment in being with me.