It's Okay When You C*m Early - F4M

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Thank you. Hey handsome. I had no chance to really talk to you earlier.

I know, I had to rush too. We both have busy lives. But I had a feeling that stuck with me throughout the day.

So I thought I'd leave you a message just in case. You seemed upset after we had sex this morning and you said something along the line of sorry for coming too early again. And I just wanted to let you know that to me this is nothing you need to be sorry about.

It really isn't. We easily get these ideas from romantic movies, for example. Good sex is hours and hours of love making with effortlessly coming together.

Or in porn. Tireless fucking in 15 different positions before the big money shot. What I'm trying to say is we compare ourselves to impossibly high ideals.

Do you realize how little these have to do with the sexual reality of most people? It's so easy to feel inadequate. And I think there's a big silence among men about topics like coming early or difficulty to get hard or stay hard.

And I think that's insane because those are very common experiences. I swear, they are. Premature ejaculation, how the doctors call it, is the number one reason why men seek sex therapy.

I've recently read that about 30% of men struggle with coming early or have dealt with that in the past. Men are not machines. We are all humans with human bodies that sometimes do what we want them to and sometimes don't.

That's why I simply wanted to tell you it's no big deal when you come early. It is okay. I enjoy sex with you.

A lot. And I don't need it to be long every time. And I don't necessarily expect to cum myself while you fuck me.

That's not as simple as in porn for us women either. Besides, there are other ways to make me cum. Remember that one afternoon when you went down on me? Again and again until I was completely spent.

That was wonderful. I mean, if anything I should take it as a compliment when you come quickly. It must feel so amazing to be inside of me that you're just overwhelmed with pleasure.

And I want you to feel that pleasure. I want you to enjoy yourself with me. I don't want you to come to my bed with performance pressure.

I don't want you to worry. I don't want you to think the most unsexy thoughts imaginable while fucking me. So you might last longer.

And I definitely don't want you to mess with your health and pop a blue pill or numb your cock with some dubious ointment or something. I want you to be able to let go. To get lost in the moment.

To feel close. That's the whole point of having sex to me. It's not a competition.

And I'm aware that there are people out there who see it differently. There might have been partners in your past who viewed sex as something you should perform on them or judged you for not meeting their expectations. Maybe even said hurtful things about you and your body.

I am not them. To me sex is a space that we both contribute to and we both get to enjoy. To me the ability to open up and be intimate and vulnerable is far more impressive than fucking for hours.

You know why? Because I'm not perfect either. And like that we both can relax and enjoy each other more.

Just know that if you want to work on longer erections and try slow sex or taking breaks or explore non-penetrative sex more we can do that. But not because there was any need to improve your performance to satisfy me. Okay? I am happy with you as you are.

And I'm looking forward to having you in my bed again. Bye.