Friends - Wine and 3am Conversation

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Well you see that's what I'm trying to tell you but it does come back to something else you know it does come back to that and that's the main reason why I believe that that is incorrect and I just don't agree with it and I can't agree with anyone that thinks that way too but you do make a few good points so I'll just leave it at that agree or disagree right yeah actually now that you say that what I do want to tell you about since we're just talking about random things I mean it's so late what time is it I can stay for a little bit more I can stay for a little bit more but here's what I was trying to say I completely understand that there's a lot of opinions in the world right like we know that there are many different opinions and it's completely fine but people do not know how to talk or just have a conversation about different opinions respectfully like why is that so difficult that is my issue with everything okay what's so difficult from sitting from another person and not getting heated the moment that they don't agree with you on anything you know like am I going crazy that's my question do you agree with that yeah I mean any any logical person would understand that but people just want to fight they just want to fight like I don't think there's any I think there's absolutely no real urge or want to understand to just talk to converse with one another to understand the other person's point of view or try to understand like there's no intent behind it do you know what I mean does that make sense to you that's what's upsetting that's what's completely upsetting because I for me all right personally I love to talk to people and if someone has a different opinion than I do I'm the first person that wants to understand that opinion that wants to understand their point of view I want to know what they're trying to say and I want to fully understand it like really understand it and then I want to see why I think my own way or why my opinion is that way do you know what I mean I want to get to the deeper I want to get to a deeper understanding of both opinions of both points of view and then just put them up against each other even my own opinion that's what I want to do and I think that that's the key to really coming together as different cultures as different people and just respecting each other because that's the main problem is that we don't understand we first of all we don't understand second all we don't want to understand other people and thirdly that leads to not wanting to be with each other because since we're different and since we have different opinions we're supposed to be at an argument all the time at odds at yeah I just fighting we just want to fight all the time and I think that's wrong I don't know I'm just going all over the place I mean the wines really hitting me I guess but I just want to make sure that I'm not going crazy here because something that I thought about for a long time these past few weeks and months actually maybe even years especially now with things like the internet right like that's that's been it's gone strong like the last 20 years and opinions are not all over the place they're all over the place that's the place for everything all information is just there all the opinions are just there and people just do not know how to have a conversation also and this is the reality of it in my in my perspective is that people get way too comfortable behind a screen people get way too comfortable and then they just say whatever they want they do not care about any other like since there's like no consequences right you can leave your opinion on every post you can make a fake profile and just be a troll or say whatever you want what's deep within your heart you can say whatever it is it's just it's sad it's sad I think it's sad I think it's pathetic but the reason why I think it's pathetic is because these people the people who just throw negativity or who don't want to understand want to bother other people they have nothing better to do their lives are at a standstill and this is the only thing that gives them any sort of I guess reward or attention something they crave so deeply and one of the comments would be if I were to post this right would be it's not that deep bro it literally is what else do you have in your life then have time to just go post to post and just spread negativity what do you have I don't think you have anything else to look forward to in your day and it saddens me for you we're all looking for the same exact thing most people I think we're all looking for friends people who care about us and people who we can care about we're looking for a purpose in this life hopefully that purpose gives us happiness looking for experiences and all of this just means that we're trying to live and live life to the fullest of what we can express before we die and people we don't want to come together and understand that we're all going through this thing through this experience that you brought into the world with a raw deal knowing that you're gonna get taken out of it that you don't you won't last forever and it gets sad and it gets lonely because we're all so focused on ourselves at the same time we don't want to help ourselves it gets sad that that's it's bittersweet is what it is but hey that just might be the wine talking again do you have anything you want you wanted to say I've just been blabbering yeah yeah go for it what did you want to say no no for sure I absolutely agree with that yes yes yeah well that's yeah okay so what you're saying is is that you think that all of this that's the reason why there's so much there are so many people who are clinging on to things to just escape life right you see people who cling to it can be anything there are people who cling to shows there are people who cling to alcohol to substances there are people who cling to fitness like it's when it's when that one thing when one thing becomes your entire personality it's alright if you have a passion for that thing but if it's not if it's blocking you from having a life if it's blocking you from having other things that are necessary in life you get what I mean like if you have to take a shot before you wake up or when you wake up that's a problem if you can't function that's the thing if you can't function without all the other things without these things that you're clinging on to then that's when it becomes a problem you're completely right I think that way to say I think that's true I think that's entirely true I agree with you yeah because it's alright if you if you have a drink every other night or if you have a drink once two times a week if you if you want to get a little tipsy once a week or twice a week it's okay but you can't be doing that every single day and you can't be blocking your life with that you know it can't be the thing that you're looking forward to the only thing you're looking forward to there's so many things so I agree with you I completely agree with you you're right you're right man it's got heavy didn't it hey remind me next time to only have two glasses and not five yeah no I'm gonna I'm gonna be safe and and I won't I won't drive right now um if you don't mind me I'll just crash on the couch and as soon as I wake up I'll leave yeah all right I appreciate it um I mean sure if you don't mind I'd love to yeah okay yeah you want me to use this shower or you want me to yeah this one okay I will I'll take a quick shower I really appreciate it by the way I'll take a quick shower and then I'll uh I'll just go to sleep thank you so much for having me over I really needed this though we could do it again next week or some other time yeah all right all right you have a good night okay all right.