Friend - 3am Conversation - Journey

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So then what do we want to talk about right now hmm what are we gonna talk about cuz we always talk about the same shit we really do it's always the same bullshit it's always this it's always that fucking shit it's always relationships all that fucking bullshit look honestly I'm gonna be real right now I know I've had a few it's always the case and I always end up fucking talking a lot but I have to say this cuz I feel like we're all fucking like living in the same life just different fonts okay that's what I feel like all right listen I feel like personally personally okay my opinion but I do feel that everybody shares this okay we're all lost and here's the deal here's the deal like there's no goal okay just follow me on this follow me on this trust me hold on just just let me explain okay I feel like there's absolutely no goal in life all right there is no goal that's the first thing and that we're all lost and that we're supposed to be lost okay let me just just hold on hold on let me let me explain okay I said lost and there's no goal all right hold on if the purpose we've talked about this before remember I've said before like what I think the purpose of life is just live right this ties into that right if the purpose of life is to truly just live right that's how you can get the most happiness the most amount of happiness out of it out of life I feel like these goals like oh you got to be like a doctor or like oh you gotta be this you gotta be that well you know I feel like that's all bullshit because I mean you're gonna do that right once you reach that that goal is no longer a goal it's over so then that big goal that you had then what do you have after that huh what do you have think about anything all right like let's say for example oh my goal is to be a doctor okay you're a doctor fast forward two decades you've been a doctor for two decades 20 years right you're like oh okay um so I've been a doctor for 20 years like what's new what would like what's the jerk I already hit my goal 20 years ago so what have I been doing for 20 years living my goal that makes no sense man like that's not you gotta have other goals that's my that's what I'm getting at here you got to have it's the journey all right it's the journey and the journey is living that's the purpose so I feel like all these goals that we get to fixate it on like we gotta be we gotta have a house by 30 we gotta have the kids we got all this shit you gotta have the career you gotta have the book publish you gotta be in a movie you got whatever it is right all of that all those goals it sucks to say but it's kind of better not to reach them because the journey is the thing now obviously I'm not saying that it's bad to reach any goal obviously it's great to reach that goal but it's the fixation of the goal okay it's like oh I have that goal I reached it like I was I was expecting it to be everything for me to be everything and it's not it's not I got there and it is absolutely nothing after a year of reaching that goal you're done it doesn't fulfill your soul anymore so that's what I'm saying I'm saying that literally I feel like the goal these goals it's too much it's too much we're supposed to be lost you have you have adults who literally behave like children like children 50-something year olds half a century and behaving like children you're telling me that we're supposed to reach these goals or laying on these things and there are people who literally never grow up and I'm not saying that in a bad way I'm just saying like I'm taking the perspective of like grown-ups that behave like children in bad scenarios like you should be mature in some things you know what I mean like I said and this is the one another truth for life all its moderation you got to have everything in moderation you can be very mature all the time but hey don't be too serious lighten up sometimes you know just be a you know just just let it let it let yourself grow and change because that's what's gonna happen nobody ever stays the same forever and if you do you're missing out you're missing out on growing spiritually which is the most important part of life and these goals they just hold that shit back you know at least that's what I think all this I know this is too much okay and I promise I'm not gonna have another glass but I will finish this off by saying that all I want people to do all I hope you guys do right here us if you take anything away from this is the fact that you need to enjoy the journey and these goals it's great if you reach him if you don't it's okay hey you tried you went for it okay you went for it you that's all it takes if you didn't do it well hey you went at it a hundred percent you'll never have that doubt that's a lot more important because then what would happen if you didn't do it and you didn't fail it would just be what oh I never tried it so I never knew if I was gonna make it or not hey you tried it you failed okay good it's actually great trust me cuz when you fucking wake up 70 80 years old you're gonna be like oh hey I tried that okay yeah I know that I I tried my best done you'll die at peace you'll die at peace I know that sounds kind of gloomy but I feel like there's some comfort in that I really do so just focus on the journey enjoy the journey and these goals that we need to have because society or whatever friends family whatever the fuck it's okay relax don't take it too seriously all right enjoy the journey that's all I always ramble on don't I but whatever what are we gonna talk about now.