This is intended for women interested in training men to listen to, although I’m sure many of you males would love to pump to it. I explain why men need chastity, what punishments for a lack of obedience should look like, and why booty worship and foot worship are so integral to male training.
So, if you're listening to this, then you already understand quite a lot about men. Not that there's much to understand. Predictable creatures, aren't they? Visually inclined, desperately into novelty to their own detriment, and very easily seduced once you know how to push the right buttons.
Those particular buttons will depend on your particular man, but there are a few common routes I encourage every dominant female to take, regardless of whether or not her man seems to have a particular kink for them. Those would be foot worship and ass worship. Now I'm sure that you can appreciate how good it might feel to have your juicy butt massaged by some strong and eager hands, how sensual it might feel to have your toes rubbed whilst a cock is inside you, and remember, it doesn't have to be your man's at all.
It can feel pretty amazing to have your toes sucked on, to have your high arches massaged after wearing heels to an expensive dinner date that of course he funded, and again, not necessarily just for him. But these are not the reasons why I encourage you to indulge in foot worship, indulge in ass worship. It's not just because it feels good for you, it's because you own that man, and these are perfect ways of showing him.
The lowest of the low parts of your body, where your waist exits, and where all of the dirt and grime of everyday life accumulates off the soles of your feet. Whilst a real man might have access to your beautiful lips, those on your face, and the soft ones between your legs, your little cock, your little chastity sub, your little slave, your little femdom boyfriend knows that only certain areas are reserved for him. Symbolic areas that really display that he'll do whatever the fuck you tell him to do because he doesn't have a choice.
Now I do hope that any of you listening to this have your man locked firmly in chastity and that they haven't necessarily even seen that key, certainly not felt the pleasure and bliss of release in quite some time. Bliss in and of itself will make that man eager to please you. But ultimately the goal is to have him whipped, to have him understand that none of his choices are his own, and that that's truly what he really wanted all along.
Female-led relationships and femdom dynamics don't just crop up out of nowhere. A man doesn't just succumb to a woman's whims because it's a novel sexual fantasy, although I do know some men who probably wish that they'd been careful about what they'd wished for. No, these relationships develop because a man needs them.
He craves that feminine power, the divine feminine that can guide him down a hotter, sexier, better, more enlarging path for his life than he ever could have carved for himself. You see, you probably know that a lot of men won't ask for what they really want. They won't discover what they really need until you take a few other distractions, such as those leaking cocks, away.
Until you instill chastity, until you deprive them of the pussy and just treat them instead to the ass and the feet, men's egos are a little too present, should we say. They get in the way of him realizing what it is that he truly wants. And so when he's locked and all those distractions disappear and new ones crop up in the form of the strain of his dick against those bars of an evening, he can access his true submissive self just a little better.
And this is when the real fun begins. This is when you can begin to train. This is when you can begin to replace any old desires with new fetishes, new desires that you wish for him to have.
Set him tasks. Give him orders and realize that any apprehension he may show in obeying an order will be met with harsh consequences, severe consequences. And I'm not talking about cutesy punishments.
I'm talking about cutesy things that seem like a threat but are really a treat to him. Punishments he fucking dreads. Just to make it real.
Some examples might include a smaller chastity cage. You've seen the type. The ones that are just the mushroom cap kind of head.
Has he shrunk enough for you yet? That dick wasn't much use to you anyway. Why do we need these when dildos of any shape, size, color, and dimension just exist? And he still has a tongue and fingers, right? Spiked chastity cages are also an option.
You can have spikes that will dig into his cock, training him never to get an erection and thus potentially also instilling erectile dysfunction. That's a nice little psychological fuckery right there. Or spikes that go around his balls, equally as painful, just a little bit different psychologically because they don't prevent the hardness.
Icy hot is another thing to play with, especially if you want to, say, unlock him from the cage. Hey honey, would you like out? Do you want a nice jerk-off session? Make him beg for it.
Make him so excited. Tell him that he can only have it if it's a really long one, 30 minutes or so, and then show him his lube. Bengay.
Ass cropping is a fun little punishment, especially if you have a very thin cane. It's always a delightfully sadistic thing to go and have the man pick his own crop from a selection you have or else fashion one from a stick he finds outside in the backyard. Too cruel? No.
How about writing lines over and over? Better yet, writing lines whilst he's listening to you get absolutely railed. Or a recording of such if you are not able to arrange these things to line up.
I suggest recording some audio of the next time you have fun with your bull so that you can feed that through the headphones of your poor little submissive who dared question an order or hesitate in obeying it as he sat there writing his hundred, five hundred, thousand lines. I don't know. Depends how long your sex sessions are.
Maybe we just have him keep going until you've come. Now, of course, all of this is within his consensual realms. There's safe, sane, and consensual ways of playing and one such way is to have a safe word.
Now, safe words don't apply to chastity. Chastity is not physically damaging, well, unless you do it for too long. Chastity is not something that should have a safe word attached because it just makes it all too easy to escape.
What's the point of the key? What's the point of the lock if at any time he can simply say the word and be released? No, no, no.
Safe words are important but do not apply to chastity. Safe words could apply to things like caning of the ass, of course. If he reaches his physical limit with pain, he can use it, but using the safe word itself should come with its own set of consequences such as more time in chastity.
That's just a foolproof way of making sure that, again, he doesn't just get the easy way out. We need to have backups here, we need to have incentives, much like you must have learned with training him through chastity, dangling a carrot, tease and denial. There has to be something in place to just prevent a little bit more of these things being abused because weak, desperate, horny men will start to get this stupid idea in their heads that they know what's best for them.
They'll start flailing the safe word around whilst their pain is barely comparable to a regular month's period cramps. They'll start begging for release from the cage after two erections in it. And it's our job as women to keep them in shape.
So I hope this gave some additional ideas for how you might tease, train, seduce and punish your slave. Keep him wrapped around your little finger and he'll be the best little subbie you could have ever hoped for. Good luck.