After your intake with the therapist, you're back for the full session as the therapist continues to use cutting edge techniques to help you reduce your anxiety and calm your nerves. Following instructions is a must as he dispassionately guides to a clinical breakthrough...if you know what we mean.
Oh, well, thank you for coming back for the full therapy session. If I could have you just sit down in the same chair you were in yesterday, and oh, before you sit down, it's probably better just to take off your clothes right now. I find that in the therapy sessions, it helps to be completely vulnerable.
The act of taking off your clothes actually makes it easier for you to be more open and honest about what's going on in your life and what we're here for. So yes, yes, please, I've seen all of it before. Thank you very much.
Anyway, now that you're sitting down, as I recall from yesterday, I think it was? Yeah, yesterday. You were about to have a breakthrough, right? You have a diagnosis of advanced anxiety, feeling pent up, not being able to concentrate, and so forth, and difficulty making decisions for yourself, and so I suggested a course of directive therapy in an effort to release that tension.
How are you feeling over the last 24 hours? I see. Worse.
Well, sometimes that can happen when you don't quite get the breakthrough you want. So, let's have you follow some instructions and let's see if we can't work our way through these things, alright? So as you're laying there, I want you to put your left hand on top of your forehead.
No, I am serious. Good, good, good. Now put that arm down and put your right hand and tug your left ear.
Yes, yes, no, this is part of the therapy, yes. Good. Very good.
So, raise your left foot. I see. Put it down.
I didn't say to stop tugging your earlobe. Thank you. Now you can stop.
See, concentration and focus is very important for these kinds of therapies, so it's very key that you just sort of let my words guide you and follow my instructions. Do you understand? Good.
Yes, good. Alright, now let's see where we left off. You were about.
.. Oh, yes, of course. So, let's have you caress whatever parts of you will make you feel good.
Not involving your genitals, please. It's very important that we build up to that. If you rush, you cannot learn self-discipline.
If you can't learn self-discipline, then what is the point of this therapy? Yes, very good, yes. That's a perfectly natural response.
Just keep doing that, please. Yeah, pinch those. Thank you.
Great. Okay, so, as that's happening, on a scale of 1 to 10, how turned on are you right now? Oh, as high as that.
Interesting, interesting. Yes, I can see that. Very well.
Then, while one hand is caressing you, take the other hand, the hand you usually use for these sorts of things, and reach between your legs. Don't start anything, just touch. That's right.
Yes, I can see you already beginning to breathe a little heavier than you were before. Excellent, excellent, excellent. Right, so, now begin making a circle around the most sensitive part of you, please.
Yes, this is part of the therapy. Thank you. I want you to go slowly, sort of like around in a circle.
Take about as long as it takes for me to make a sentence, like 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Very slowly. Slower.
That's right. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Stop.
Good, good. You're taking instructions very well. That's very good.
Sometimes some patients don't do quite as well as you're doing, and I think you should feel really good about yourself for that. That shows a lot of promise, I would say. Do it again.
1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Good, good. Stop.
And then one more time around. The other direction. 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Excellent. Good. And are you feeling more flushed? Yes? Okay.
Deeper breathing. That's good. That's part of getting rid of that tension.
Very nice. Very nice. So let's explore that some more.
I want you to proceed to do whatever stroking motion you find brings you closer to a climax. Yep, just like that. A little bit slower, please.
Yes, I know. I know. I can tell you're very intense on this, but really, it's important, first, that you trust me, and second, that you proceed slowly.
Remember, part of this is about self-control, as well as removing all your anxiety. Am I going to have to count again? Yes, I took from your questionnaire that you like authority, and I understand that this is turning you on, but also as part of this power exchange between the two of us, we do have to make sure that you follow instructions.
Yes. Very good. Now, stroke slowly.
Very good. Yes, see, there you go. Just like that.
Very good. And now stroke again. Slowly.
Slowly. Excellent. Now again.
You may move a little faster now. That's it. Very good.
Okay, that's too fast. Slow down. All right, I will obviously have to give you more intensive instructions, so place your hands on your thighs.
Very good. Yes, I can see that you are turned on. The moans do not help.
They will just cause problems. Very good. With the hand that you prefer, please reach between your legs.
Stroke down. Stroke up. Very good.
No, no, no, not yet. Stroke down. All the way.
Very good. Stroke up. Stroke down.
Stroke up. Stroke down. Stroke down.
Stroke up. Stroke down. Stroke up.
Very good. Yes, and part of doing this with snaps is that it conditions you to respond to snaps. And so later on in our therapy, when we have breakthroughs, I can just snap and you will feel better.
With that conditioning, we can really bring about a faster change and quicker breakthroughs. So again, down. Good.
Up. Good. Down.
Good. Up. Good.
Down. Up. Down.
Wait. Ah, wait. Patient difficulty waiting.
Very good. And I'm just going to snap. And so stroke in time to the snaps while I continue talking to you.
Very good. And as you focus, I'm going to snap. Very good.
Very good. Very good. And as you focus on this pleasure that you're beginning to feel more and more, I want you to understand how much the pleasure is eating up, if you'll pardon the expression, any anxiety you had.
And the more pleasure you feel, the less anxiety you're going to feel. And soon, you will have the anxiety completely destroyed by the pleasure. And letting go of that anxiety means that we can work on the things that caused your anxiety with a clear head and a clear mind and a clear approach.
Very good. You're doing so well. Keep stroking in time.
That's it. That's it. Very good.
I can tell you're already getting close to wanting to climax. And I can feel you straining at the rhythm that I'm setting. That's perfectly natural to be expected.
Nevertheless, when I say stop, you stop. Very good. I'm really impressed.
Good. Stroke in time. The key is that we often find our patients are stuck in the rhythm of self-control, where.