Boyfriend - Motivation

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Alright, sleepyhead, that sounded, that's terrible, baby, you have to get up, okay? Well I already got up, I took a shower, alright? I thought you would already be up by now.

Well you're just laying there, I know you've just been on your phone, I know you woke up before me, at least an hour or two before I woke up, and I finally woke up, got out of bed and took a shower, and you are still in bed. What's going on? Why don't you want to get up? Hm? No, it's just one of those days, I know those days, yeah, where you feel like you don't want to do anything.

Look baby, let me just sit down, hold on, alright, I'm gonna speak to you, and I want you to understand before I say all of this, what I'm about to say, that it comes from a place of love, it is gonna sound like tough love, but if no one's ever gonna give you the truth, or the facts, or speak to you in a way where it might hurt your feelings a little bit, then they don't truly love you, and I do, I love you more than anything, you know that, so I just need you to, don't pay me to be the villain right now, I am just telling you what you need to hear, what I think you need to hear, and it's gonna sting a little bit. The difference between people, most people, are the people who let these emotions and these feelings overpower them, and defeat them, let me put it this way, if every single time we were to feel not good, like we didn't have any inclinations to want to do anything that day, nothing would get done, we feel like that how many times a week, how many moments a week, it's too many to count, and if you let these things divert you from doing something, then you're letting that win, alright, look at it this way, for me for example, you know I love going to the gym, right, I can tell you right away, at least half if not more of the days during the week, I don't want to fucking go there, I hate it there, I truly hate it there, but I go, because one thing that helps me be consistent, it's more of a mental thing, I'll be honest with you, I haven't even seen that much progress late, that's probably my fault because of other stuff, but that doesn't matter, that doesn't matter, fuck all that, what I need you to understand is, if I felt sad, and I didn't go, I can still work out while I'm sad, that's not gonna make any difference, I still have to do what I gotta do, right, it's the same thing as why you will show up to your horrible fucking job, right, because you're afraid of getting fired and you need to make money, it sucks, I know it does my love, I know it sucks so fucking bad, however, you still do it, so why would you only do that for other people and not do it for yourself, you have things you have to do today that I know you need to do for your personal growth, especially for your mental health, because if you don't do them, you're just gonna keep on being there, and I know you can do it, if you need help with anything, let me know, if you need me to go get you a coffee, something, whatever I can do to help you, just tell me, always, but if you let this win, you will regret it, I promise you, it seems like nothing, it seems like, well, I'm just staying in bed, I'm not doing nothing today, but if that keeps happening, which it has been happening, all the days you've been free off of work, you're not gonna get better, it's only gonna get worse, and time, you already know I say, what I say about time is the most valuable currency that we have, if you don't use the time you have right now, you will regret it, because it doesn't stop, it never stops, so trust me when I tell you that I know you can do this, and you will, and you need to hear this, you're letting it beat you down, when you're tougher than that, when you can put in so much more than what you're barely giving, especially for the things you want, for the things you need, these things, they're gonna help your soul, your soul is giving out little by little when you don't do the things that make you happy on your days off, because you're too tired, because you don't feel like it, because you got a little sad, because of whatever, you're letting it win, and I need you to start fighting back, and winning, because you can, does that make sense sweetheart, it does, well then great, good, I'm glad to hear that, all I want is to make sure that you heard all of this, and remember it comes, it all comes from a place of love, I love you so much, and I don't want you to be wasting all of this stuff, that all of these opportunities that you should be, you know, working on, for yourself, you already give up, you give up so much to this fucking job, and I want you to quit it, but in order for you to quit it, you gotta better yourself, and the things that you need to do, shit needs to get done, you gotta do it, if I could do it for you, I would, but it's not gonna help you, it won't, you have to do it yourself, I can help along the way, but I can't do all of it for you, it won't serve us, it won't serve you in any way, so this is what we're gonna do, you're gonna get up right now, you're gonna go take a cold shower, so it wakes you up, I'm gonna go get a Starbucks, I give you that, and then you're gonna go do the things you gotta do, alright, then later tonight, as a treat, because that's the part people forget about, if you did a hard day's work, if you did things you weren't supposed to, like, if you did things you were supposed to do, but you didn't wanna do them, but you got through them, and you did it, you deserve a treat, I am gonna get you your favorite dessert on earth, yes, yes I am, I will go get it for you, I promise, but you gotta make sure that you do everything you gotta do today, okay, alright sweetheart, well then go, take a shower, I'm gonna go, I'm gonna go put in the order, and then I'm gonna head out, and I'll be right back, okay, alright, hey, come here, I love you, I love you so much because you haven't brushed your teeth, and I still kissed you, that's how much I love you, it's fun baby, it's fun, alright, go shower, I'll be right back.