Bestfriend - 3am Conversation - No whining

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No because you get very heated and I don't want to jump into this topic with you I don't know how you're gonna react to it okay I know you're my best I know you're my best friend but it doesn't matter that's that's you know what that's because that's how I know I know it because you are my best friend and I love you I love you so much sometimes you just get way too heated and right now I'm thinking that this might be something that you you might disagree on okay all right fine fine but here's my point of view okay and obviously you have to listen to me first and then you can you know say what you want to say all right but you got to listen okay look at me you have to listen all right cool cool cool what I'm saying here is all right relationships right they're all built on trust however however it is entirely different for people like for a specific set of people now what I mean by this is a lot of people have insecurity of other people cheating so other people are like hey I don't want you having an Instagram I don't want you having whatever a tik-tok a YouTube channel they don't want any online presence because of pure insecurity it could be because they were cheated a lot in their past they were cheated on right in their past it could be because whatever all right they might be really insecure about their appearance whatever it is that is an individual the individuals the problem okay and what I mean by that is let's say for example okay let's put two people right this person says to the other person person a says to the person B hey I don't want you to have like anything because I'm insecure blah blah I don't want you to have an online presence right person B could be the shittiest person in the world they could literally be like cheaters and stuff and that isn't gonna stop them that is not gonna stop them all right it isn't because person a chose a cheater you get what I mean you see what I mean yeah and then vice versa vice versa person B could be all miserable like you know like they could be a saint they could be like oh I don't like this is like toxic as shit right but then they chose person a all right and I know that that goes back to like toxic relationships or whatever and I'm not talking about it from like the point of view of like people liking the toxic behaviors I'm talking about people who complain right they complain and then they have the audacity to keep being that way that's what fucks me up yeah okay all right well then fine fine fine you go ahead what's your thoughts on that like what's your thoughts I just want to hear you I want to know what you what you think about it okay okay too too because I was a lot of shit yeah let me just simplify it I don't want people whining about their relationships if they are picking people right that they're complaining about like that's it and also to add on to that you really got to look at yourself and have higher standards because I know that the world seems like you're never gonna find the one right that we've talked about that shit before I actually don't think there's the one there are people you're compatible with and then you pick them and say hey let's try it out I really want to try this with you that's what you do you pick people that you're compatible to like that you have the same goals you have the same you know the big important things and that you are attracted to obviously and then you're like I want to make it work with you it's a choice it's a choice it is you both have to choose each other because that's when fucked up shit happens when one person really chooses and the other person's like hey I'll just be here or whatever like okay I guess that shit doesn't work so that's one point of it but I just get so fucking irate already and I'm sick of it when you're complaining complaining complaining but then you're putting yourself in these situations of like you choosing the person but hey that's just me right now I've had a lot of fucking beers you've had a lot of beers and we're just talking shit right no but I know I know that and I love you okay and I want to hear your thoughts on it because I've just been seeing that a lot and it's something that we can talk about right now and just have fun with besides besides if you ever did that I'd fucking come after you because I'm never letting you just pick something that is not good for you okay you're picking someone that's not good for you because I fucking love you we're best friends okay you're my best friend and I want you to have the best for you right and I want you to be someone good for the other person as well because I can't be you know completely unbiased I want you to be perfect for each other and by perfect that just mean you're compatible you're attracted to each other and you're both willing to put in the work to make it work does that seem pretty good yeah I thought so okay so I want you to think about what you want to say right I'm gonna go get us another round and then you're gonna tell me you're gonna lay it out like you're gonna tell me what you think about all this okay all right you want the same one all right I'll be right back.