Aizawa (MHA)- Hangover Coffee

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Ugh, my head, it hurts so much, how are you feeling? Last night we drank way too much, we have to remember not to do that, but I guess the wine was very good, and I guess all the cocktails and other drinks we decided to try all in one night, by the way, I told you that was going to be a bad idea, we shouldn't have done that, well, we can't do anything about that now, either way, all I know is that my head hurts, and the only thing that's going to make it better is coffee, do you want some? Would you like some coffee? Yes? Okay, then I'll make us some coffee, by the way, we never get to finish our conversation since we both blacked out from drinking too much, so you can keep telling me about that, oh listen, just let me make the coffee, go ahead, yeah, no, no, it's fine, it's fine, well, if you don't want to speak, you do, well, then just sum it up if you don't want to speak that much, just go ahead, say what you got to say, oh, oh, I didn't know that, actually, I thought it was something different, yes, I had no idea about that, well, okay, well, here, let me break it down for you, so what you're saying is that you're afraid he's not going to want to go out with you anymore because you're moving too fast, right?

That's what you just said, okay, well, the reality is that you're never going to know what he thinks unless you tell him, it's as simple as that, I feel like we lose basically everything 90% of the time because we never even try the thing, this can be asking a question, trying to do something different, it's always something, always ourselves putting the barrier for ourselves and then blaming the fact that we can't do it, when in reality, it's us stopping ourselves from doing it, if you really want to move forward in the relationship with him, you have to tell him, because unless you do so, you will never know what could be, it's much better for you to do so, and then get a decisive answer, because this is very important, we don't have a lot of time here, we don't have a lot of time on earth, we have a finite amount of time, and we have to take a really good consideration of that finite amount of time and do as much as we can with it, and the reality is that it's better to do a lot than maybe not succeed at a bunch of it, but know that we tried, god damn my head hurts, just give me a minute, you always hear about these ridiculous, I don't even know what to call them, I would guess to say remedies for hangovers, but the reality is that they never work, at least not for me, the only thing that seems to work is coffee, I'm wondering if it's brewed already, yeah I think so, here, why am I sore, we shouldn't have played twister last night, you know I hate that game, it's a child's game, sure it's fun, but it's a child's game, the only thing that makes it fun is alcohol, to be honest, so what I was saying was, we have to be very very considerate of the fact that we don't have a lot of time, and if you like this guy, you gotta take the chance with him, you gotta trust that you're both ready, if he's not ready, that's not his fault, you know, we're always blaming, but we never really consider the fact that we just might not be at the same place at the same time, obviously we are when you're talking to someone, but mentally, in our soul, we might not be, and that is okay, it's completely fine, it's not a bad thing, it's just the way that it works, besides, and not to be completely, I don't know, a dick, right, but wouldn't it be better for you to say this right now, tomorrow, and get a decisive answer, then you're able to consider what you want to do, or you can just go your separate ways, and maybe you find the person that actually would like to take the next step with you, with obviously a considerable amount of time before doing so, but you're able to move forward, you found someone, instead of losing time being with someone that you have no idea if that would be a possibility, do you see such a small and, I guess, overlooked reality, but it's very important. Yeah, how's the coffee? Do you like it? Yeah, it's really good, it's uh, it's from the Caribbean, actually, you know I love coffee, and I have tried from so many places, but I'm stuck in my Caribbean coffee phase.

It's very, very good. Nonetheless, was there something else you wanted to discuss about that? How you should tell him, how you should ask him? Just ask him, it doesn't have to be a big thing, just take a moment when you're both, I feel like, in a very grounded moment, nobody's really upset, nobody's really sad, you're both just normal, and in one of those moments, that's when you have that discussion with them, with him.

And just be ready, if they're not ready, then you have to just ask yourself if you're willing to give them more time, because it might just be time, you know, maybe to you, six months isn't a lot of time, and you're ready to do it, but maybe for them, they might just need a little while longer, you know. We always judge other people for not doing things the same way we do, or for understanding the world how we do it, but we can't. The reality is that we are all so different, we're shaped by our experiences and who we are.

It's impossible to be judgmental about that, when something so simplistic as where you're born or who you're born to, shapes your life, shapes your understanding of everything. So yeah, here, hold on, I need a drink. That's good coffee, so good.

Jesus, these kids are driving me insane. Oh, I'm getting too old for this. Anyways, is there anything else you wanted to talk about? No? All right.

Well, I actually have to start getting ready to go. I didn't know if you, you can stay here as long as you want and then leave, but please try to clean up the place a little bit. If you want, just leave the kitchen area for me, I'll do that, but you got to clean the living room, because we went way off the wall yesterday.

And next time that you tell me to do this, I am definitely going to take a rain check on that. All right, let me go get ready.