A Dom and a Sub [ramble] [dom] [sub] [kink] [pegging] [restrained]

Transcript

Hey, it's Leigh. Cozy up. It's time for a story.

Well, hey there. This is a new series where I'll just be talking. Not so much of a story time as it is answering some of your questions.

I'm going to answer them one at a time, keep you on the hook for next month. But this month's question is how do you feel when you are the dominant role during playtime versus how do you feel when you are the submissive one? I feel like this question is very simple and yet complicated all at the same time because on one hand, being dominant just means being assertive.

On the other hand, it's not so simple. I really like the power that comes along with being dominant of putting on a strap-on harness and guiding my 6-inch clear cock into someone's tight, tight ass. It's fun and exhilarating.

There's this rush that kind of comes over. Kind of hard to explain. I wouldn't say it's dominant, really.

But that role reversal that a woman typically, an assigned woman at birth, doesn't really get to experience often. We are by nature submissive. That's what we have been cultivated by society to be.

But when we get the chance to strap one on, there's just something more powerful about it. It's also incredibly sensual. I love the feeling of reaching down and playing with his cock while I'm pegging him.

I love looking at his facial reactions and expressions. I love seeing all of that play out, knowing that I am the one causing all of that pleasure. It's intoxicating.

And when I'm the submissive one, I feel like I can just let go. It's a little bit more free these days. Submissive used to have a different meaning.

It was a being quiet, being seen and not heard, being an object to someone else's affection and want. But these days, being submissive means trust. It means allowing myself an opportunity to fully unravel, to lay back, and to enjoy.

I often feel like my entire body is on fire, yet being cooled with ice at the same time. It ends up being this multi-sensory experience. And at the end of it, I know that ultimately I am still the one in control.

With one little word, one safe word, and mine very simply is no. I can make all of it stop. I can also ask for more.

But having someone whisper in your ear, come for me. And then say, good girl. Lights me up in a way that I never imagined it would.

Being dominant is intoxicating and powerful. Being submissive is unraveling and free. They both have different things to offer.

And both are things that I want. I don't like to be one or the other exclusively. I guess I want the best of both.

Until next time, thanks for listening. www.mooji.org.