94) Tantra with Dr Nautica and Joy (full version)

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Hello, come on in. Go ahead and have a seat. How are you? Oh, that's good.

Good to hear. As you already know, I'm Dr. Nautica.

Again, it's just a formality that I tell you about each time. So, let's start out by going over your paperwork and discussing why you are here. You are here because you want to learn how to have better orgasms, yes? Okay.

And what that means is that you would like these orgasms to be more intense, and you would like to feel rejuvenated after you orgasm versus feeling drained. And you would love to know how to have multiple orgasms, correct? Good.

Is there anything else? Okay. As you know, it is after hours.

I've got the door locked. You are my last appointment. You and I are going to talk for a little bit, and then I'm going to bring in my assistant, Joy, and she is going to assist me in giving you a Tantra massage.

Do you know about Tantra? Joy and I are Tantrikas, and that means that we are teachers of Tantra. We study Tantra, and we practice it in our everyday lives.

How does this all sound to you? Yes? Good.

I'm really looking forward to this session. Okay, the first thing that I'm going to teach you is how to have a more intense orgasm without physical stimulation. Yes, I'm serious.

So, while it may seem that orgasms are because of stimulation of your genitals, orgasms don't actually start anywhere near your penis. Yes, I'm serious. While that area is the central area for touch, there is another player in this pleasure game, and that would be your brain.

You look confused. All of your sexual desire and feelings start in your mind. It is your body's biggest sex organ, and that means your brain is also the key to having multiple orgasms.

It plays a crucial role in getting you to that next big orgasm after you've already had one. Multiple orgasms. So, this is called energy orgasm, and it involves the separation of the experience of orgasm from the stimulation required for physical climax.

Now, while you may only be able to physically climax once, or maybe twice, a limited number of times in one session of sexual play, you can learn how to have an energy orgasm, how to continue to orgasm over and over and over energetically. Many orgasms. You can even do this when there is no sexual contact happening.

So, just imagine, you know how good it feels to orgasm. Now, imagine that you have that same feeling, that same orgasm, but there's no one there, and you're not even touching yourself, and you can have that pleasure. It's not a one and done.

You can do it again and again. You just need to learn how to tap into that generous river of pleasure that is right there inside of you, waiting. Once you learn how to do it, you do need to practice.

It takes time, and it may seem a little awkward at first, but it does get easier. The more your mind and your body get used to it. A lot of times, I've had people come to me frustrated, telling me they want to have a hands-free orgasm, and they don't understand why they can't, and they don't know what they're supposed to do.

So, even when they find out what they are supposed to do, it doesn't happen right away, and they're frustrated. But, I just remind them that it takes training. They need to keep trying.

So, for those people who are struggling to have multiple orgasms, they want to have multiple orgasms, but they can't get there. They have one orgasm, and their body peters out. This is likely due to the mind.

Now, while it may seem like the penis has deadened, it is actually probably the brain, which turns out to be the culprit. The brain is your superpower when it comes to orgasms. It might sound crazy, but go with me on this.

Let's just say that you don't find this surprising, and that you believe me. Keep that in mind and give it a try. Okay, so I'm going to give you an affirmation.

I want you to think and believe. Repeat after me. I'm going to have a full-body energy orgasm today.

Repeat. I'm going to have a full-body energy orgasm today. We all have an infinite flow of sexual energy inside of us.

You just need to learn how to tap into that and utilize it using the mind. You just need to let the mind go. Let it go in a particular way to allow the power of this orgasmic flow to come through.

So, most people may only let themselves access it during genital stimulation, but once you believe that it is possible to connect with your energy without any direct physical contact, it all becomes vastly more available to you. I know what I'm saying sounds strange right now. Just open your mind to the possibilities.

A non-sexual orgasm has many names. It can be called a breath orgasm, an energy orgasm, a full-body orgasm, an HFO, hands-free orgasm. You will need to use your breath and your imagination, your visualization, and make it happen.

We're going to learn a breathing technique today. That's all you need. You need to believe it's going to work.

You need to learn how to use the mind and the body together as one, and you need to practice. Do you have any questions? What does it feel like? As a woman, I don't know what it would be like to have your penis completely worshipped and adored for hours on end, but I can imagine it would feel fantastic and even better afterwards.

After the internal energetic orgasm or several, this energy expands throughout the entire body and isn't just focused in the genitals so it's all so intensified and that feeling lasts for a long time. They feel different each time and they feel different for each person, but they are typically very intense. Sometimes they're just simply wonderfully subtle.

You may experience electricity shooting through your entire body. Your lips may tingle, your hands and your fingers might tingle. You'll feel a sense of release and receiving at the same time.

You'll feel high. There are so many variations to this type of orgasm. However, the one thing that describes all of them is that they are absolutely euphoric.

One of the main factors is that the more time you spend edging, the more intense the orgasmic bliss will be. So here's what's going to happen. Joy is going to worship your lingam, otherwise known as your wand of light.

In the physical sense, it is what we might call the penis. The Tantra definition expands the view of the male genitals beyond the physical. The masculine is a pure laser beam of consciousness, raw energy and single-minded focus.

A lingam massage is about worshipping that consciousness and giving a man space to relax into his body and expand his consciousness to receive even greater pleasure. This can help a man work through sexual trauma or negative sexual conditioning. If orgasm happens, they are more intense than normal orgasms.

It's my hope that you will be able to explore the edges of your ability to receive pleasure. That's the goal. And if an orgasm happens, or more than one, it will be more intense than normal orgasms.

Are you ready to get started? Great. You can go back to the treatment room.

There is a full-size futon adorned with silk sheets. The room is dimly lit with candlelight. Soft music is already playing.

A soft scent fills the air. I have all-natural organic oil and lubricant. When you go in that room, get undressed completely.

Lie down face up on the futon and wait. Joy and I will be in shortly. Hello, again.

Meet my assistant, Joy. While Joy is getting undressed, I'm going to help you to get a little more comfortable. You can use this pillow here and place it under your hips to better allow for the flow of energy.

You can use another pillow for your head, the choice is yours. Bend your legs so that your feet are flat on the surface. Joy is now completely naked.

Joy, crawl onto the futon, spread his legs apart gently, and sit in between his legs. Joy, crisscross your legs, scoot in close to his body. Joy's legs are spread, and your legs spread apart.

If you focus, you can feel the heat coming from each other's root chakras. The heat and the energy from each other's groin base area. The root chakra.

Let that heat dance. The energy combining and dancing together, back and forth, between your root chakra and Joy's root chakra. Now, the two of you are going to breathe together.

Look into each other's eyes. Take deep breaths in, all the way down to the base of your core, at the very bottom, where the perineum is. And when you blow out, do it as if you were blowing out birthday candles.

Deep belly breathing into your root chakra, the base of your core. Breathe into your pelvic floor, expanding the belly like a balloon, in and out, looking into each other's eyes. Begin breathing together.

A continuous flow of breath, in and out. No holding of the breath, just continuous breathing in a circular motion. Breathe in from your base, from your base, allowing it to travel up your spine and down your front.

Over and over, without any pauses. Up the spine and down the front. Around and around, in through your nose, out through your mouth.

The two of you breathing together. I'm walking over now, to stand at the top of your head. I'm naked now, you hadn't even noticed.

Feel my hands now, as they touch your face, on both cheeks. My fingertips touching under your chin, the palms of my hands on your cheeks. Soft, warm.

Keeping my hands in place, using my thumbs, I massage that area in between your eyebrows, your third eye chakra, just above your eyebrows and in between your eyebrows, caressing lightly, gently. Continue to breathe with joy, in and out, rotating the energy up your spine and down your front. As you continue to breathe with her, in and out, a continuous flow of energy, filling your belly full of air and fully expelling.

My hands now, slowly glide up to your scalp, and I begin gently caressing your scalp with my fingertips and my fingernails. Continue to breathe. Empty your mind.

Let go of tension. Let go of ego. Settle in, inhaling through your nose, exhaling through your mouth, like you are blowing out birthday candles.

A complete circular motion with no pauses between inhales and exhales. Continue to breathe deeply in and out, filling your belly with fresh air, and blowing out fully as if you're blowing out the flame on a candle. We are going to simulate waves of an ocean.

I want you to arch your lower back each time you inhale, and as you exhale, flatten your back down. And as you flatten on the exhale, squeeze the pubicoxis muscles, the PC muscles. The squeezes stimulate your G-spot, the perineum.

Feel the sensations in your G-spot when you squeeze. Breathe in, arch your back, and fill your belly up like a balloon. Exhale, flatten your back, and squeeze your PC muscles.

Do this over and over. Inhale, arching your back, filling your lower belly like a balloon. Exhale, flatten your back, and squeeze your PC muscles.

Good. Doing that over and over. Breathing in, arching your lower back on the inhale.

Flattening your back, squeezing your PC muscles on the exhale. Feel it in your G-spot, your prostate, inside the rectum. Feel the G-spot.

Be aware of the surface under your feet. Under that is the floor, and under that is the earth. Now imagine the core of the earth, the center.

That molted, hot place, all the way down to the center of the earth. Hot, white, the pressure is so high, the deepest layer is a solid iron ball. The core serves as a major energy source for the planet, storing a lot of energy.