2. Intro to BDSM

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Fetish The word fetish is used in psychology to describe troublesome sexual fixations, usually leading to situations where a person could not become aroused without the object that he fetishized. In BDSM, though, we use the word more broadly and without the pathological connotations to mean a preference or a strong turn on. Now let me talk about some common fetishes and see if you might have some.

Latex and rubber Some people love the smell and feel of latex or the sound it makes while it's worn or played with. If you don't know what latex is, you might want to go to a store and touch and smell it. There are many different kinds of latex, varying in thickness.

Thinner latex is better for clothing, such as pants or catsuits, because you can sweat a lot while wearing it. Dresses and bras can be made from thicker latex. Latex doesn't only mean a black dress and a catsuit.

There are many companies that sell fashionable latex wear, making it possible to wear it during everyday situations. Also there is a chlorinated latex from Brazil that is super smooth and thin that one barely sweats in that. There are also soft latex panties.

They are so sexy to wear. The smooth well-wetty latex will brush your clit and as you sweat a bit in it, it almost feels like you would have a tongue in your pants. Tell your partner to try to give you an oral sex through these panties.

It's a great sensual experience. See if your partner likes latex. Many find it an erotic look.

If you do, you both can dress in latex and use oil on the outside so that it's shiny and slippery. If you also get latex or PVC bed sheets, you can slide on each other, rub each other's bodies and enjoy a sensual make-out session. Just be sure to put a towel next to your bed so that you can wipe your hands and feet when you decide to walk around the house.

Some people love rubber clothes or toys like rubber dolls. Wearing a rubber mask can be extremely arousing for some people. Similar to latex, the arousal is usually focused on the unique feel and the smell of the rubber.

Also like latex, you can get very hot while wearing rubber clothing. You should use a lot of baby powder to put on latex and rubber items. Leather Leather is sexy to many people whether they are into BDSM or not.

Leather may also be used to refer to a subculture of the BDSM community where participants are distinguished by their leather clothing but engage in a variety of other BDSM practices. Some people love leather so much that they would prefer an unattractive partner dressed in leather to someone they find incredibly attractive in other ways. Stockings Both men and women eroticize stockings.

Some women love to see their boyfriend or husband dressed in pantyhose, which makes the body appear sexy and tight. Some people also like the touch and the feel of hosiery. Stockings might be worn on the face during masturbation or torn apart for easier access to the genitals.

Feet The foot fetish is probably one of the most well-known fetishes. There are many ways that feet become erotic. Some men prefer feet in shoes, while others prefer them to be bare.

Some prefer feet that are clean and pretty, while others are turned on by dirty or sweaty feet. People also vary in terms on how they wish to interact with feet, lick them, smell them, touch or massage them, or have the feet stroke the penis, which is called footjob. Some women like male feet as well and want to smell, kiss or even caress their breasts with them.

Shoes or boots Boots or stilettos, closed-toe shoes, 5- or 7-inch heels. Although fetish for certain shoes or boots might be an elaboration of a foot fetish, it could also be a strong preference of its own. Some men prefer shoes that have been worn and purchase them from dominant or kinky ladies.

Some men masturbate with their girlfriend's shoes because it turns them on. Some submissives want to lick shoes or the heel of the shoe. Others just become aroused by focusing on their lady wearing a certain type of shoes.

Occasionally, a high heel is used for kicking or penetration, although extreme care must be taken not to cause injuries. Uniforms Uniforms are sexy on men or women and for some people they become a fetish. You can buy uniforms online or in a costume shop or sex shop.

Some people require an authentic uniform to be truly aroused, but others are turned on with a costume version and there are plenty of those available. Uniforms can be used in role-playing scenarios. Some BDSM clubs or events will have a theme night that involves uniforms, as this is a popular turn-on.

Some ideas of uniforms could be military, medical and a schoolgirl. Learn more at www.plastics-car.com.